Since you asked, sure!
I can think of several analogies I've learned during my life experience that I would like to share.
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THE HUMAN PSYCHE:
I spent 150 hours in a personal improvement class taught by a clinical psychologist PhD — that's eight years he spent in universities studying the human psyche. At the time he was completing four years as a hospital psychologist intern treating patients as a doctor.
During one of our classes, he compared the human spirit to a bonsai tree, and society (life experience) to the gardener who is tasked with caring for and shaping the tree.
He said if the seed drops in fertile soil, and it receives the proper amounts of light, water and nutrition the tree grows large to its full size and healthy on its own (but like without ever getting a haircut).
What society (and parents) do, he continued, is act like a gardener; watering, feeding and pruning the tree to contain and shape its growth.
The problems with society — like the gardener — is misguided pruning, under nurturing, over nurturing, including fire, flood and war, can damage the tree physically and spiritually.
The doctor was pretty firm in his belief the tree — like the human spirit — can survive horrible trauma and be healed back to health over time with proper gardening.
The human spirit, he continued — like the tree and the body — may always show the scar of a neglect, accident, spoiling or abuse, but nature has amazing abilities to heal the spirit and the body with proper care and nurturing.
My teacher seemed to associate a common spiritual life essence to both the tree and human in his gardening analogy which I have thought about many times over the years.
THE NATURAL ORDER:
Crab fishermen don't worry about filling up a pot with crabs — BECAUSE — as soon as a crab gets a leg over the top to break out from the group, the other crabs pull him back down.
It is hard to believe this crabby behavior happens amongst our families, our best friends, and small communities — BUT — open your eyes to what's going on if your friends are teasing you about improving your position.
This behavior is scripted and acted out in movie after movie and is a Hollywood staple for movie plots.
TROUBLE:
Stay out of trouble!
Getting into trouble takes your options away and leaves other people to decide what programs or jobs you are suited for (or if you spend your young life in prison with other troublemakers).
FOOT PRINTS:
It might seem pretty cool to post party pictures and bad language on blogs like MYSPACE and in e-mail and text messages, but they become your public record and can be easily found by investigators doing background checks on your personal history and character to attach onto that job application or college scholarship you are applying for....
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